Bullies thrive when we do nothing

The film That's What I Am provides several examples of bullying and what happens when others stand around and do nothing. In the following clip from the movie, Norman, another one of Andy's classmates tries to negotiate with his tormentor (email subscribers click here).



While Sam is certainly bigger than Andy and Norman, it's Andy who actually empowers the bully by doing nothing. Norman does his best to reason with Sam, but to no avail. Sam intends to intimidate and extort whatever he can from his fearful victim. Andy just stands and the top of the stairs and watches like a rubber-necking driver on the highway. He didn't have to get involved physically. That would be foolish on multiple levels. Andy should have told a teacher or administrator. Instead, Andy stood and watched. He even gives Sam an obligatory "what's up" as if they're cool with each other. Maybe Andy thinks if Sam likes him, then he won't end up like Norman. Ignoring bullies or trying to be cool with them won't make them stop.

Bullying stops when bullies recognize the value in others and the value in themselves. Bullies must learn that true strength has nothing to do with the ability to hold someone else down. You and your kids can learn how to prevent bullying and be a S.T.A.R. - Show Tolerance and Respect. WWE and the St. Louis Sports Commission proudly present a free screening of the film That's What I Am on Tuesday, September 27 at the Moolah Theater in St. Louis beginning at 9:30 a.m. WWE Superstars will be on-hand to discuss the film with your kids. If your school or youth organization would like to attend, please call 314-345-5130 or email salexander@stlsports.org. Until next time...

Be a Good Sport!

-Sol